Take a dive into the heart of biblical modesty

Is modesty all about the clothes we wear?

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What if I told you that modesty is about more than clothes and that there is a way to find freedom by embracing it? We usually don’t associate modesty with the word “freedom” because of the lies our world sells us about fashion, beauty, and acceptance. When you identify those lies for what they are, you will quickly find that believing them will alter your perception of yourself and will never led to fullness of life. By choosing to take a deeper look at what God's word says about fashion, beauty, and inner character, you will discover that modesty isn’t an out of date list of rules we have to keep; it’s an attitude and a lifestyle of humility, self-control, gratitude, and grace. If you choose to embrace the reasons the Scriptures give us for living a modest life, they will not only change the way you want to dress, but they will change the way you see yourself. Then you will not only learn to present yourself with humble confidence, but you will also discover within yourself a beauty that will never fade away.

​With an appendix for men and links to resources online, this isn’t like any book you’ve read before. Instead, it’s an invitation to a journey through the beauty and power that modesty has to offer anyone willing to embrace it. 

What People Like You Think About Beyond Your Wardrobe

“Humility, gratitude, grace, and faithfulness are just a few of the ways Bethel Grove takes modesty ‘Beyond Your Wardrobe.’ I love that she dives right in by going to the heart of the issue, but she isn’t afraid to answer the questions we all know every girl has, and still brings it back to what’s in our hearts in the end. Reading Bethel’s book is like talking to a big sister. She isn’t afraid to share her opinion, but you know she is pointing you in the right direction.”
​Heather Hart – Director of FindingYourTrueBeauty.com
“Bethel is a rising voice out of the young generation on behalf of modesty. She speaks out of her own experience, vulnerability, passion, and research. It is refreshing to find someone in your corner who, ‘gets it’ when it comes to the tensions of this topic. But more importantly, she dives deeper past the rules and into the heart.”
Danielle Brown – Kids Lead Pastor of 7 years
“Beyond Your Wardrobe is an incredible read full of the truth about God's opinion when it comes to modesty compared to the opinions of society. Reading the book I actually felt that it further opened my eyes to everything I was taught by Bethel in her bible study…I highly recommend it to women of all ages struggling to define God's opinions when it comes to modesty.”
Katie M – High School Student
“Bethel Grove's Beyond Your Wardrobe is thought-provoking and challenging, in a good way! What a wonderful book. It is a timely reminder for some of us, and a straightforward introduction for others. Modesty is a lost art and an overlooked concern for many men and women of faith. As she says, we need to honor God with our bodies. She reminds us to have the right mindset for all of our decisions, not just our attire. This book will make you consider your choices and your motivations behind them. God bless Bethel for using Scripture to be her guide. Let us all take note.”
Karen Parkison – Teacher, Mother, and Youth Leader
"Beyond Your Wardrobe is a well-written book that clearly shows how modesty is really more than just about clothes. Modesty is "an attitude that doesn't desire to draw unnecessary attention to ourselves but instead wants to focus it on the God we worship. Bethel does a good job supporting that point throughout the book and also emphasizing the worth we all have from God. She includes practical examples for women as well as men. It is important to get at the heart of this issue and not just treat the symptoms with rules about clothes. May we all be truly modest and live to give glory to God alone."
Teresa - Amazon Reviewer
"I have 3 children - 21 and 19 year old young women, and a 13 year old boy. This book has helped me in giving them pointers on how to dress. Like someone else mentioned, it helps when they hear advice from other people outside the family. I was happy to see the part directed to men. Modesty will always be a thing, even when it doesn’t seem to always be on the forefront. Modesty can also make someone more beautiful than showing more skin. The links to the videos and articles are very helpful. This book is very good to help you in raising young men and women on the right path."
KC - Amazon Reviewer
"This book is written really well. I do love the way she explains what modesty is. What it stands for. And how to achieve it.

Bethel Grove says in one passage, “A humble heart is one that is so concerned with the needs of others and honoring the Lord, it don’t think that much about itself. Not to say that humble people neglect their basic needs, but they choose to put the energy that would have spent dwelling on themselves and their problems and focus on the needs of others instead. I believe this is at the heart of biblical modesty. We should have our hearts so focused on doing for others and honoring the Lord, that we don’t have time to be dwelling on ourselves in vain or self-deprecating ways. We have to find a balance between overdressed and underdressed, between being too humble and too confident. That’s where you find the heart of modesty.”

I mean, how beautifully does she put this?!! I couldn’t agree more with this and how modesty should be. It’s more than just our outward choice of clothing, but actually begins inward. Our character itself should be modest and humble. And the book highlights just that!"
Nadia - Goodreads Reviewer

What Men Think About Beyond Your Wardrobe

“Beyond Your Wardrobe takes a deeper look into modesty while reminding the reader of their tremendous value in Christ. God’s word is clear and speaks to modesty for both young men and young women and shows its direct correlation with the condition of the heart. Challenging and thought-provoking you will appreciate this exploration of the idea of modesty.”
Jeff Dungan – Father of a Princess Worth Dying For
“If you're like most men, you probably have no idea what a big deal this issue is for women. Reading this book will help you understand the challenges that women face today in making wise and godly decisions regarding their clothing, and you'll be better equipped to support the women in your life in their wardrobe choices. Plus, there's also some great advice for men when it comes to their clothing choices as seen through the eyes of our sisters in Christ.”
Matt Stafford – College Professor
"Beyond Your Wardrobe is packed with great insights and challenges for how we are to live out Biblical modesty. I love how she mentions that modesty isn't just about what you wear but it is about your attitude. Modesty is about humility. As you dive into this book you will notice how modesty reflects the life of Jesus."
Carson - Youth Pastor

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Study Guide and Video Series

Note: Due to the closure of Amazon's Media on Demand service, the original DVD is no longer available on Amazon. Therefore, the video series from that DVD is now available as video download that can be purchased directly from this site through the order form further down this page. If a DVD would better suit your needs, then you can purchase a plain DVD that will not include the original packaging but will contain the original DVD menus. You will be required to cover shipping costs in addition to the purchase price.

​​Are you ready to go deeper into the heart of biblical modesty?

For those who are ready to go deeper, this study guide and video series will lead you through a 6 week Bible study of the book Beyond Your Wardrobe. You can use these tools in three different ways:

Study Guide – Use the questions and videos to guide your study through the book. So whether you use the empty spaces between the questions to write your answers or if you just meditate on the answers, it’s totally up to you.

Discussion Guide – Use the study guide as a discussion guide to help guide your conversations about the book/videos. It’s up to you to see what works best with the dynamics of your group.

Group Bible Study – The second half of the study guide is a leader's guide through a 6 week Bible study through the video series, including activity suggestions for both in-person and virtual gatherings.

With everything from discussion questions to resource links to additional video playlists, this resource will help you dive deeper into the heart of modesty and unfading beauty. It will be an experience you will never forget.
Curious what the video series look like? Here's a sample video:

​​What People Like You Think About the Beyond Your Wardrobe Curriculum

"The Study Guide for Beyond Your Wardrobe includes great discussion questions for any student or kid to work through and discuss. It is easy to follow along and lead others through. I love examples of activities or events to plan that go with the discussion! The [video series] is easy to follow and does a great job at presenting the questions. This study is full of great insights and challenges on how to live out biblical modesty, not only in what we wear but also how we live."
Carson - Youth Pastor

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There are several download packages available to meet the needs of you or your group. All digital download packages will receive an unlimited use license for the Beyond Your Wardrobe Coloring Book for free [more details in the "Coloring Book" section below].

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Small Group PDF Bundle (for 10-15 people) - $25
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Coloring Book

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The Beyond Your Wardrobe Coloring Book was designed by my friend Maddie Dungan and features 8 original designs featuring quotes or Scriptures featured in Beyond Your Wardrobe. Originally only available as an early order bonus, it is now available for $2.99 as a digital download from Teespring.

To purchase the Beyond Your Wardrobe Coloring Book, click here

All digital download packages include this coloring book for free with an unlimited use licence.

Other Products

There is also apparel inspired by Beyond Your Wardrobe available through Teespring.com. More info and pictures available on the Apparel page.